How important is knowing where you
come from when it comes to knowing who you are? This is a question that has
bothered me for a long time. My dad adopted me when I was 5, and I’ve never
known my birth father. I wondered if I was missing some essential knowledge
about myself, but recently I’ve decided I don’t care.; I won’t let my DNA
dictate who I am. I don’t think of my nationality as something I inherited
through blood. Instead, I think it’s determined by how I was raised.
However, I understand why Nathan
Adolfson would struggle with these issues a little differently. Because he is
Korean, people viewed him differently growing up. He never fully felt like he
belonged. He went to college and then Korea to become closer to a culture he
could see in himself. Yet, when he finally got to Korea, the connection he
wanted wasn’t there. He didn’t grow up in Korea, so he couldn’t connect with
people based on his birth alone.
During his journey, though, Nathan
found a group of people that he could identify with. When he met others who had
been adopted from Korea and grown up feeling like outsiders, he could relate to
them. In a way, this is Nathan’s nation. These people share experiences with
him that no one else can understand. Shared experiences are an essential part
of what makes a nation. So although Nathan and the people he met who understood
him did not all live in the same place, they have a bond that makes them a
strong community of their own.
Thank you for sharing with us.
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